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		<title>Two Facets of Leadership</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There are two very different facets of leadership: doing the right thing and doing things right. What is the right thing? A right thing is something that is in alignment with a person&#8217;s purpose. One of the things I discuss in my latest book, The Compassionate Samurai, is the importance of being clear about your [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be Aware of How You Listen to Improve Your Growth</title>
		<description><![CDATA[In the last article we talked about one of three ways of listening, &#8220;being with.&#8221;  What are the other two ways of listening? One is to agree with whatever is being said, and the other is to disagree. We often listen from a standpoint of whether we&#8217;re going to agree with what&#8217;s being said, or [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.bklemmer.com/181/be-aware-of-how-you-listen-to-improve-your-growth/</link>
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		<title>Do You Practice the Art of Being With?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Would you like to be more efficient, more effective, more intimate? Then join us in learning the art of being with. Being with is a way of listening to people. It&#8217;s listening to others without any filters up. One filter compares whatever is said to your own personal experience. Another filter is listening with an [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.bklemmer.com/172/do-you-practice-the-art-of-being-with/</link>
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		<title>Revenge!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[When considering the third of the 3Rs, revenge, there’s often a short circuit that takes place in our minds. Suppose someone asked you if you ever took revenge on others. Now, if you’re like most people, you would think that you don’t take revenge. Your underlying thinking might be that if you did, it would [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Give to Get Beyond Resentment and Revenge</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There are times when open, honest communication and the use of code words and fair fighting may not work to get you out of the 3Rs. This can be the case when the person you feel resentment, resistance or revenge toward is not someone you can openly communicate with. When this is the case, consider [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Enhance Your Communication with Code Words</title>
		<description><![CDATA[In our last article we talked about open and honest communication as a means to handle the 3 R’s: resentment, resistance and revenge. How else can you communicate responsibly? On pages 53-56 of If How-To&#8217;s Were Enough We Would All Be Skinny, Rich, &#38; Happy I discuss the rules for fair fighting. One rule is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Think Outside The Box To Open Up Possibities</title>
		<description><![CDATA[How does the world look to us when we view it without the pair of sunglasses called right and wrong? As mentioned in a recent post titled &#8220;How Does the Right/Wrong Paradigm Color Your Experience&#8220;, the right/wrong paradigm is a context for looking at life in which one person is right and the other is [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.bklemmer.com/113/think-outside-the-box-to-open-up-possibities/</link>
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		<title>The Ugly Side of Dreams</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Isn’t that a great title! This is my first blog. I am new to Facebook as of 2 months ago. Twitter and linked in a month ago. Now I am blogging. It’s another great adventure of possibilities. The ugly side of dreams is an article I am in the process of writing that refers to [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.bklemmer.com/46/the-ugly-side-of-dreams/</link>
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		<title>Fulfillment Comes From Fulfilling a Purpose</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Fulfillment Comes From Fulfilling a Purpose Source: By SARAH TRELEAVEN How to be happy. That&#8217;s really what it all comes down to, isn&#8217;t it? Even if life has been chugging along at a fairly joyous pace, most of us would admit a little more happy couldn&#8217;t hurt. Often all that requires is a gentle reminder [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.bklemmer.com/42/fulfillment-comes-from-fulfilling-a-purpose/</link>
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