If you’re new here, you may want to subscribe to my RSS feed. Thanks for visiting! There are two very different facets of leadership: doing the right thing and doing things right. What is the right thing? A right thing is something that is in alignment with a person’s purpose. One of the things I [...]
In the last article we talked about one of three ways of listening, “being with.” What are the other two ways of listening? One is to agree with whatever is being said, and the other is to disagree. We often listen from a standpoint of whether we’re going to agree with what’s being said, or [...]
Would you like to be more efficient, more effective, more intimate? Then join us in learning the art of being with. Being with is a way of listening to people. It’s listening to others without any filters up. One filter compares whatever is said to your own personal experience. Another filter is listening with an [...]
When considering the third of the 3Rs, revenge, there’s often a short circuit that takes place in our minds. Suppose someone asked you if you ever took revenge on others. Now, if you’re like most people, you would think that you don’t take revenge. Your underlying thinking might be that if you did, it would [...]
There are times when open, honest communication and the use of code words and fair fighting may not work to get you out of the 3Rs. This can be the case when the person you feel resentment, resistance or revenge toward is not someone you can openly communicate with. When this is the case, consider [...]
In our last article we talked about open and honest communication as a means to handle the 3 R’s: resentment, resistance and revenge. How else can you communicate responsibly? On pages 53-56 of If How-To’s Were Enough We Would All Be Skinny, Rich, & Happy I discuss the rules for fair fighting. One rule is [...]
